Saturday, May 12, 2007

A Night to Remember

Last night was the first time I have been involved with more than one person in a sexual nature in years. It was far less uncomfortable for me than I imagined it would be. It was my first encounter with Miss D and her submissive husband. I imagine that this FemDom couple is quite unique for this lifestyle. I try very hard not to judge, but this couple may not be for me.

After a fairly long drive, I arrived at Miss D's house for the purpose of helping her train her husband. I changed into stilletto boots (as pictured), a long black skirt, and a very low cut black sweater. I wore nothing else. When the husband arrived home from work, Miss D immediately made him undress and put him in his wrist restraints, collar and leash. He is already restrained in a chastity device - a CB2000 I believe. He was told to lie prone on the floor with his legs spread. I gave him a couple of taps on the balls with the crop, just to let him know I was there. He has a very sarcastic demeanor and a quick, wise mouth. Although I value these things in friends, I don't particularly think they fit within this setting. I gave him quite a few lashes with the crop, leaving angry red welts on both cheeks.

Miss D and I sat and chatted, with far too much imput from her sub. She made him get on all fours and introduced him to one of my toys, a 7" long, 2" diameter dildo that we informed him was going in his ass. Miss D made him suck on it for a bit while I donned rubber gloves and tested his ass for insertion. Feeling him grow very nervous, I slid a penis-shaped plug into his ass instead. I told him it would stay there for the duration of my stay. Miss D teased him by allowing his face within inches of her pussy, knowing he would not be able to touch. There was another good hour of flogging and torture with the plug in.

Miss D and I were served fruit, cheese and crackers by her boy on his knees. Again, there was far too much input from him while we were chatting. He never stopped letting us know what "he" wanted. The pure cheek of it offended me. Miss D made him get his favorite porno magazine and open it to his favorite layout. She released him from his device, and while I flogged him with the crop, she made him masturbate and cum on the magazine. She then closed the magazine and let the pages seal together with his cum. Nice touch. However, the entire time he was masturbating, he was making all sorts of requests of me. "Can I see your legs?", "Will I ever get to see your pussy?", "How about just up to the thigh?". It is abundantly clear that this bottom is not really a bottom. Miss D does enjoy topping him, but he seems to almost script the scenes for her. It works for them, but it's not at all what I picture a true submissive relationship. Again, I don't judge. They are very happy with their relationship. But when I sub says that he doesn't want to continue if he is never presented with his "carrot", I'm not sure I want to be involved. Either that, or he is gagged whenever I am present.

As I thought, Porter contacted me last night to see if I was home yet. He may have cold feet where I am concerned, but he still has that need to explore the BDSM experience vicariously through me. I'm sure I will hear from him today.

I was expecting Newcomer this morning. His plan was to come by and play for a bit and then the two of us would go shopping for more "toys". As of this writing he isn't here yet. If he waits much longer I'm going to have to leave him and go on my own. I haven't done the grocery shopping yet and I'm starving!

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Topping from the bottom.... While it's true that the bottom does have the ultimate power (they have a safeword), they should be letting go of all the power EXCEPT that. If I were you (and of course, I'm not), I'd say thanks but no thanks to the FemDom couple.

Destiny and her pet chance said...

Or like you said if it amuses you to play with them, have his mouth duct taped at all times.

Its cool if they want to play that way, but obviously you demand more than a hot fantasy for the male. When you are with them the rules need to be stepped up a notch, or they do not get to play with you.

Destiny

saratoga said...

MistressFleur-

I was surprised that you did not have a gag of some sort in his mouth right after the cropping of his cheeks.

The naming/classifying thing is often seen as judgmental by many, but here, I think it actually is useful.

From your written description, and your won tentative conclusion, the male sounds like he's definitely a fetishist, maybe topping, maybe likes to bottom, but in almost no way sounds submissive. The motivations to obey simply do not appear to be there.

The couple may enjoy this, but it seems, from your description of the evening, that the wife is behaving in a sort of B'rer Rabbit manner, complaining about something she seems to not only tolerate, but evidently enjoy.

It is very difficult to believe that a Dominant wife would put up with what you experienced.

Regards,

-saratoga

strongnsubmissive said...

It sounds like you enjoyed the evening MsFleur. I'm guessing that even though this fellow wasn't your kind of sub, it was a good experience over all. Perhaps the dynamic that was going on there works for their relationship. For you to be able to see that it didn't work for you is probably a good thing.

Had you invited them over to your place, i'm sure the rules would have been different for the boy. LOL

Thanks for sharing.